A very tough Question!

On DW's blog, Tigo asked:

do you regret being married to a diabetic?

what an impossible question?

if the question were:  do you regret being married....
how many people would answer yes or no?
it depends on when the question is asked


how many divorces do we have in America today?
marriage is difficult in the best of circumstances -- whatever they are
if one partner has diabetes, or asthma, or smokes, or disagrees regarding how to raise the kids, or loses a job or becomes "disagreeable" regarding religion or politics....


there are so many reasons for two people to have problems in a relationship over the course of a marriage!


On the other hand, love and perseverance and commitment can overcome everything


I really want to tell Tigo that if you listen to people who want to protect you, it is possible to end up afraid to do anything!  On the other hand, those same people taught you not to cross the street in front of a speeding car.


there is no one to listen to instead of yourself
listen to your heart
are you in love with this guy - even at his worst moments?
how does he treat you at your worst moments? what it should be




good luck
there is no one best answer
only you know
your situation is different than everyone else's

life is hard -- diabetes is a very difficult disease
but then again so are other challenges that life throws at you