Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Yes, Of Course, It is Sad

Those of us who write and read and relate to these blogs understand the shock of others who read and feel repulsed. We too feel badly about all of these issues -- of course that is why we are writing here. Like many parts of life, we have to live with the ugly side of things and it helps us to write about it here. If some people haven't seen these issues then we truly are happy for them. But we had no idea that in our thirties we would start nursing, parenting, coaching, counseling, researching, and trying to be a mind reader to our spouse. we also didn't expect we had to give up sex at such a young age.

So why would strangers who happened to read a single blog start attacking the blog?
DW reports that she has deleted many responses. She says its funny, but I imagine there is a little hurt also. She is already dealing with so much why would others judge her? they don't know what it's like to be in her shoes. What she deals with is sad. the way these people responded is sadder.

I would hope that this year people will be more understanding of others'

Tom's Wife

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